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Ok, I hookd up wid a chick last nite at a party. She was on her rags so we coodn't do much.
we were on a bed and she started givin me head which was hell pleasurable n all. she was getin sick of doin it, it had been like been 5 mins or so. and i said to finish me off. and she went 4 another 5 mins. and i kinda was nearly ther but then she stoped. my question is, is ther anything wrong with me, why coodnt i ejaculate. after she stopped i just beated of and ejaculated. Do you think i just didnt hav enuf time to finish or ther mite be sumtin wrong wit me? I usually beat of 1-3 times a day and i go pretyy fast. Shood i stop beatin of, will that help me wen she doin it. and wen i do beat off shood i go slower? o and having vitamins and stuf, cood that do anythin 2 me? wen she was givin me head i was abit tense(like in the leg muscles and stuf?)
quote:Originally posted by Johnathon: Ok, I hookd up wid a chick last nite at a party. She was on her rags so we coodn't do much.
we were on a bed and she started givin me head which was hell pleasurable n all. she was getin sick of doin it, it had been like been 5 mins or so. and i said to finish me off. and she went 4 another 5 mins. and i kinda was nearly ther but then she stoped. my question is, is ther anything wrong with me, why coodnt i ejaculate. after she stopped i just beated of and ejaculated. Do you think i just didnt hav enuf time to finish or ther mite be sumtin wrong wit me? I usually beat of 1-3 times a day and i go pretyy fast. Shood i stop beatin of, will that help me wen she doin it. and wen i do beat off shood i go slower? o and having vitamins and stuf, cood that do anythin 2 me? wen she was givin me head i was abit tense(like in the leg muscles and stuf?)
sorry if this is a bit wierd. im a bit distresd.
Replies wood help me out tones.
There is nothing wrong with you, if that was a first time and/or you where feeling a little nervous then it is natural to have difficulty ejaculating then and there.
It is probebly a stress related thing because you where able to ejaculate and orgasm on your own soon after. It may also help to know a person a little better before doing that, as much talking and foreplay as possible would help you feel more comfortable.
About your masturbation, it would probebly increase sensitivity and allow you to orgasm more quickly if you staved off a day or two before.
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Abstaining from sex or masturbating does nothing to increase sexual performance. Someone could masturbate every day, and have an orgasm every day, or masturbate once a week, and never have an orgasm. It all depends on the person.
And yo, Jonathon, post in plain English please. Netspeak (stuf lik dis) is really hard to read and, frankly, is annoying and suitable only for instant messangers.
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