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bandmonkey101
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When I masturbate, I can't feel anything. Even when I've tried scratching myself, there isn't anything. I also don't use more than one finger because I am a virgin and anymore hurts very much. I had my last pelvic exam about a year ago, but should I go back for another one?
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I'm not sure exactly what you're doing when you masturbate, but I just thought I'd add that many women do not orgasm from penetration alone. And many women find clitoral stimulation very pleasurable. You should experiment and see what works for you.
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I was going to say, it might depend where down there that you're masturbating. If it's penetration, like gubblebum said, some women don't get pleasure from that alone. Masturbating your clitoris would likely give some kind of feeling.

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I'm confused about the nature of your question bandmonkey. You say that you can't feel anything when you masturbated, but yet you say that if you use more than one finger it hurts. Well pain is feeling, right? Not trying to be mean about it, just trying to figure out what you are or aren't feeling.

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bandmonkey101
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This is to Vy. I guess I should have specified where the pain is. It is only in the front of the opening that the pain occurs, and nowhere else. I'm sorry for not specifying.
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how about some light reading? this may answer some of your questions:

  • Pink Parts – Female Sexual Anatomy
  • Seven Ways to Love Your Body
  • Sexual Response and Orgasm - A User's Guide
  • YIELD…for Pleasure!
  • 10 of the Best Things You Can Do for Your Sexual Self

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