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Does it hurt the first time you have sex?? for a girl.
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That really depends on the girl. For some girls it will really hurt and for some girls, they won't feel anything. This can depend on a number of things like the hymen, whether they are aroused, if they have been doing foreplay before hand etc etc. For the majority it will hurt for a girl first time, or within the first few times, but once again every girl is different.
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Thia is not an appropriate topic for a forum devoted to parents and teens so I'm moving it to Sex Basics & Health.

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What smilee_kylie is very true. Every person is different and every person feels things differently. Most girls I know said it hurt the first time, but not unbearably.


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Hmm..... does sex hurt a girl?! Depends entirely on circumstances and situations. It may indeed hurt the girl and or make her bleed if she is very nervous and not lubricated enough down below, or if her partner is being slightly rough and not realising the damage being caused. If a girl (16 or over) or female however you want to put it is not in the least nervous and has had just enough fore play to get her turned on then she will probably not get hurt.


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