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Fox Lover
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*sigh* I know that guys are really picky about having a big penis.. But honestly. It's not like an 8inch monster is going to get a guy lots of chicks or whatever their trip is. But I know a guy who is like 5.2 inches and he thinks that is too small and feels bad about himself. I tried to comfort him but it's darn near impossible.
I'm at the end of my rope.. Any suggestions on how to cheer him up and make this guy see that he's perfect for any girl?

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Bobolink
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You might point out that his penis is in the average range. And, funny thing, it is approximately the same length of an arroused woman's vagina.

Men mostly see monster penises in porn. And yes, pornographers use them because long penises photograph well, especially in penetration scenes. But you might also point out that these large penises that he sees will not fit completely into an average vagina and are often the cause of discomfort amongst women. Many women do not like having their cervix bumped all the time.

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JamsessionVT
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A girl should love him for who he is, not how large his penis happens to be.

And if they don't like him just because they think his penis is "small", than he's just weeded out those who he probably would not want to be with in the first place.

The penis dilemma for men is similiar to the breast issue for women. Women are constantly concerned about the size of their breasts, whether they are too small, or too big, too droopy, too perky...the list goes on and on. It is the same for men; neither sex will be happy with what they have until they stop thinking about what the opposite sex thinks, and concentrate on what's important...you have them (or it, whatever the case is), and it/they function properly.

You could point this out to your friend...tell him women go through the same anxiety about their breasts, but you know that if one guy doesn't happen to like them, than you know he's not worth your time. And if one girl thinks his penis is too small, she ain't worth it after all.

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Fox Lover
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exactly. but with the whole boob thing. i guess i don't have much room to talk because if i were a guy i would have like a foot long dong! hahaha.
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Wow! Foot-long dong that means you must be 38dd or thereabouts!
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Natali
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My boyfriend always wanted to make his penis bigger. I dont think that his 6 inches was not enough. But he started to take Extagen pills for penis enlargement and now he have 7 inches. It seems that he is happy now.
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Bobolink
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I am unable to find any medical peer-reviewed articles on Extagen. To the best of my knowledge, the only way to enlarge a penis is with surgery. I suspect your boyfriend's results were simply a matter that he was still growing naturally.

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logic_grrl
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But he started to take Extagen pills for penis enlargement and now he have 7 inches.

Which is a little peculiar, given that pills can't enlarge anyone's penis any more than they could enlarge someone's ears, hmm?

Natali, you've already posted repeatedly promoting "Sentia", a spurious product claiming to improve women's sex drive. Now you're promoting bogus penis-enlargement pills too.

This is a reminder that the board guidelines forbid using the boards for advertising or spamming.

[This message has been edited by logic_grrl (edited 12-13-2004).]


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laurencsi03
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my boyfriend expressed the same sentiment, but I love his penis just the way it is.

It tends to change sizes a little bit sometimes, being bigger one day and smaller the next, but he fits me perfectly.

He doesn't worry about it so much now that he realizes both he and I can derive pleasure from it, no matter what its size.

The impression that women derive more pleasure from larger penises is sort of unfounded. I'm sure some do, but I would not want to have sex with something much larger than my boyfriend's penis. There are times when even that is a little large.

I'm not going to not date someone because their penis is too big or too small. It's an insignificant detail, and I would much rather choose someone based on their personality than what's inside their boxers.


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Boob size should not matter. Yes, there are guys who have specific "preference" of boob size on us females, but that just degrades us to being "sexual" objects. One shouldn't drown themselves down because of the way one looks, everyone should love themselves of who what they are, not of what one looks. There are guys out there who do look past beyond physical appearance, and have interest in our personalities. No body's perfect, I can say, but as long you love yourself for who u are, you should be happy

I just want to also mention this part as well because it's in relation to people's preference in size. I feel the same way when it comes to men's penis, I do not have NO preference, whatsoever! Females should fall in love with a particular individual for their personality, not because of their physical appearance. It's what is on in the inside that counts!

So to sum up, size shouldn't be a "set" PREFERENCE in the dating world, and in relationships as well. We should all respect and learn to love others for who they are regardless of appearance

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