well, there's no way anyone online can really tell you exactly what it is...it sounds like it mght be better if you had another chat with your doctor, though.i know you don't think it's lack of lubrication, but adding extra lube can't hurt and it might help a lot - i would say give it a shot, astroglide is always fun. if you have vaginismus or some other type of muscle tension, making things more slippery is likely to help at least a little bit.
vaginismus doesn't need to be "caused" by anything, it can just happen. talk to your doc more about this, maybe?
the other thing is to really make sure you're fully aroused, that really helps a lot.
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