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I've been masturbating for a few years. And the right side of my clitoris is...looser than the other side...and I'm kinda insecure that it will look weird and turn someone off. Do you guys think it sounds gross??
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Masturbation can't change the shape or size of your clitoris unless it's involved seriously constant and highly forceful tugging (same way, say, your earlobes will eventually stretch out of you wear cast iron earrings every day, but they won't if you rub them daily). Chances are, if you're not in your twenties, you body is simply still developing.

And FYI, we're really not okay with heterosexism or gender breakdown around here. So, in the future, please don't ask for one gender or orientations opinion: it's not only a bit offensive, it's not useful to you or anyone else, either, as one person or two aren't going to represent the whole of their gender with a given opinion.

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It doesn't sound weird or gross to me. I'm almost positive it will not turn a guy off also. It's pretty normal for one side to be bigger than the other anyway, I know mine is.
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In all honesty, I don't think a guy would even really notice, even care, if your clit was a little looser on one side.

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And it's not like there's just one model of Guy out there, who likes W,X, and Y, but HATES Q and R. Guys are as diverse as the proverbial snowflake; they don't all share the same preferences, simply because they're human, and humans are a varied sort. So worry about making your partner happy if/when you've got one, don't worry about pleasing Man as a whole, because you're destined to fail, and it's a waste of time anyway.

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from a guy's point of view... i'd think he would care less. if he doesn't like it and boogers out for some odd reason, then id be worried about a little more than a "loose sided" clitoris...
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