Just to add:
sex doesn't "magically" change once you've passed a certain number of acts.
don't forget, chicas, that you can make sex (of whatever kind) good by doing what feels good, showing and telling your partner what feels good and by experimenting.
also, keep in mind that it's a lot easier to feel good during sex when you don't have to worry about pregnancy and stds or stuff like parents walking into the room.
plain penetration doesn't do much? stimulate your clitoris, either yourself or ask your partner to do it.
overall, penetration seems boring? keep in mind that there is no need to have it if you don't like it or want it. you can have "real sex" without intercourse. intercourse isn't the "ultimate" sex there is, and an orgasm through intercourse isn't the "ultimate goal" everyone needs to reach to graduate from sex101.
also, don't forget that plenty of women do not orgasm from intercourse, and that that's okay and normal.
as a ground rule: make sure whatever you do feels good for both of you, no matter what that is.
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[This message has been edited by Alaska (edited 02-14-2003).]