hey... I've had sex before and I liked it, but now every time I get a chance to have sex with someone, even if I like him and we're in a bed and everything's perfect... well, I'm afraid of it. I get really nervous and scared, like before going on a roller coaster when you're a little kid. I like sex and I want it, it's just that when the time comes, I get weird... can someone help me?
Maybe you're just confused now. Its normal you want to have sex, because its a natural impulse. But you shouldn't be scared though, are you with the right guy? at the right time? If it feels weird, just DON'T DO IT and wait. Your body might be ready, but not your mind. remember that
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