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this isn't, a sort of, cry for help, plea for assistance type post ... it's more me wondering if anyone else has had the same experience as me ...
anyway. just over a month ago i started having sex with a new partner. it's great. very good. fun. everything sex should be. [and as safe as possible, of course!] i have yet to have an orgasm, but i'm not complaining cuz i still enjoy it.
but. an episode of Sex and the City last week [on UK tv] made me think. Samantha [40+, frankly a slut] Lost Her Orgasm.
this got me to thinking about the last time i had an orgasm. which was probably some time back in november, maybe december. and as far as i remember, it wasn't especially great. just. orgasmic. still an orgasm, but nothing on my usual. and took -long- time. and. it's not that i ... haven't tried. i've been masturbating for -years- and always always been able to orgasm. and then. *poof*. gone. [well. not quite like that.]
i'm not panicking. i'm just wondering. sort of ranting maybe, too! i'm pretty sure i haven't had the last orgasm of my life [i'm only 17!] but it's a smidge on the ... irritating side! i miss them!
anyone had this?!


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There's a really great article you should read, titled Sexual Response and Orgasm. It'll give you some reasons as to why you are having this problem.

What it comes down to, basically, is that orgasm is a physical thing, but a mental thing as well. Sometimes you just won't orgasm, whether by your own stimulation or that of a partner.

There are also some previous threads on this topic, so feel free to peruse them:


"Read the Bible again sometime. Women are painted as bigger antagonists than the Egyptians and Romans combined. It stinks." --"Serendipity," Dogma

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