Yes, as Miz Scarlet said you should read over the rules and regulations. We can not discuss sexual techniques here.
We want people to commmunicate with there partner, because everyone likes different things. What your partner likes, might not be the same as what my partner, or what anyone elses partner likes. You get what I'm saying?
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Well, in an attempt to make this a useful post then, how about another question kinda along the same lines but a bit different.
How often do you and your partner really discuss your sex life? Did you discuss it once early on and then never again? Or do you keep each other up to date on your sexual health (ie. birth control, STD testing, etc.) and how you feel about your physical relationship on a regular basis? How do you feel that has affected your relationship?
For me personally, it hasn't been an issue for very long now, but I find that we do tend to talk about our sex life quite often. And I really have found it very helpful. It makes our relationship much more open and comfortable.
My partner and i usually only talk about our sex life when there's a problem. If there's no problem, then there's really nothing to talk about. I tell him when i'm switching birth control pills and when i have new doctor appts (i should really make one soon ... lol) and stuff like that. It just comes natural i guess. I told him everything even *before* we were together, so things haven't changed.
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yeah, my boyfriend and i talk about it quite a bit. we discuss whose turn is it to buy the condoms. he'll ask me if i remembered to take my Pill. i'm pretty clear about what i want in bed and how; he is sometimes, but i think he could say a little more about what he wants from me. we'll talk naughty to each other as a turn on. lots of talk.
We talk about our sex life all the time, we talk about it, just about everyday, it might seem a little excessive but we have sex juat about everyday, if we're lucky, and theres always something new to talk about, or something that needs to be reinstated. I think it's really good for us, and for me, and i'm happy that we can do that. Posts: 162 | From: NYC | Registered: Dec 2000
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