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lyndsie00
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Okay I have a few questions and need everyones help. For starters me and my boyfriend mess around. Which includes fingering, eating out, hand jobs, and giving head. That all pertains to oral sex right? Does he need to wear a condom when I give him head or what? I'm not very experienced in this sort of stuff and he is the first guy I have done anything with so I'm jsut curious. Anyone pelase answer! Thanks
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Heather
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You know, that's what this site is here for. Not the boards, or myself or Hanne, but the WHOLE site.

Asking someone to give you all the sex information you need in a few paragraphs just is asking the impossible. It simply isn't that simple to be that educated about sexuality and your body and health.

So, for starters: you should -- especially given your lack of knowledge right now -- be using a condom for oral sex right now, at the very least. Do it.

Next, take the time to read some basic articles on all of this, like these, for instance:

Female sexual anatomy: http://www.scarleteen.com/pink/pages/anatomy.html

Sexually Transmitted Disease Chart: http://www.scarleteen.com/pink/pages/stds.html

Condom How-To: http://www.scarleteen.com/pink/pages/condom.html

Sex Readiness Checklist (and yes, oral sex IS sex): http://www.scarleteen.com/pink/pages/readiness.html

Human reproduction Basics: http://www.scarleteen.com/pink/pages/pregnancy.html

Ask a Sexpert FAQ: http://www.scarleteen.com/pink/pages/ask.html

Above all else, go at the right pace. If things are moving so fast that you don't have time to assess your risks and learn what you need to about sex, it is TOO fast.


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