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keepinitgreen
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This sounds kind of odd I guess, but I almost want to be bisexual. I sounds so freeing. But I wouldn't want to force it upon myself because I feel like I would be...I don't know... offending (for lack of a better word) people who actually are bisexual. I mean, I get the occasional "girl crush" where I think a girl is really cool and pretty. But where's the line between that and being bisexual?

Ultimately, if I was asked to label myself anything...I would leave that blank. Because I think sexual orientation labels aren't really for me. I don't agree with them. But I guess what I'm getting at is...

Is there anyway to know for sure what sex(or sexes) you really like?

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May Day
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Only you can say who you are attracted to:) And on that same note, only you can decide what, if any, term(s) you'd like to use to describe your sexual identity.

If you don't like labels, chuck em.

I guess if i were describe myself i'd rather say i'm attracted to individuals not genders. I'd rather have someone i can connect with and have fun with than worry it's the "wrong" sort of someone to spend time with because of their gender.

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keepinitgreen
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Yeah I guess I like that, and I'll go with being attracted to individuals not gender.

Thanks for the help, that makes a lot of sense to me [Smile]

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