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Jake ^-^
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hi, i'm new! my name is jake and i am a guy. ;]

so,uh,
i am not quite sure what my orientation is, really.
i know itsnot a big deal, but i can't help but wonder.
i'm 14 and in grade 9, aaand i live in new york

there's this guy in my class that i've errr recently developed a rather strong crush on *.*
he has these insane blue eyes and brown hair and... well i won't ramble but he is quite gorgeous '3'

yeah well most of my life i've liked girls (i've never actually been in an actual relationship with a girl. but i could imagine being in one) but i sometimes have crushes on male actors and people on tv.... but i could never, ever imagine kissing or like actually being in a relationship with a guy, as pecular as that is 'o'

i'm just confusedd because i like this guy and i think i might be bi or something but i cant actually imagine like kissing him 'n'

any advice or anything?
thanks guys 'u'

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jake :]
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danda
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hey jake

im also very confused about my sexuality

im a 15 year old girl and ive also developed extremely strong feelings towards one of my best friends(female btw) but unlike u, i have imagined like a thousand times about kissing her and being with her.

she doesnt really know that im bisexual because im afraid that if i tell her she will change her behavior towards me and i might loose heras a friend...

i totally understand you and my only advice is to take it really easy and be calm

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Jake ^-^
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well thanks for the advice 'u'
i hope everything goes well with you and your crush [Smile]

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jake :]
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