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OoMEoO
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Hey everyone! Can yall help me out with something? I was wondering if i COULD be bi. I have always been the "girly girl." You know the one that wears make-up, fashionable, etc. And also the one whos very "wild" or what not. Anways, back to the subject, I am not turned on when I see a pretty girl in person or anything, but when I see porn or watch porn the girls always turn me on...A lot! Its crazy..the guys are just so nasty. And I only get off to the thought of girls and not guys. Am i bi? I am totally confortable with the fact that I might be, but please reply! Thanx!
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Gumdrop Girl
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being bi, gay or straight is not about image. there are plenty of "femme" lesbians, and there are plenty of straight "tomboys."

As for your sexual orientation, you are what you think you are. if women turned you on, and you think that's the thing for you, fine. if you're all about boys, that's fine, too. If you like aspects of both, that's also A-ok. If you are convinced you are bisexual and want to call yourself bisexual, by all means do so. After all you know yourself beter than any of us would

on the flipside, have you considered that it's the way the pornography is presented that may affect how you see it? Maybe you prefer something that's "nicer" than "nasty." perhaps something more "tasteful." if you find something you like, you might find yourself just as attracted to pornography featuring male models.

Have you read the articles in Gaydar?

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