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AdamUK
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Im gay and iv had boyfreends and stuff, but last night i had a wet dream about a woman (that i had nver met) and it got me really worried, espeially coz i came out recently!
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Milke
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Lots of straight people have homo-erotic dreams, and worry that this might mean they're gay. Lots of people also have dreams about stuff that's totally unimportant to them in real life, or about things they'd never really do. Really, it usually doesn't mean a thing. There's nothing to worry about. Your sexual orientation is defined by your feelings, not random dreams.
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italianboy84
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Well, what i do think is that this sign clearly shows that our young age we may have confused feelings. We're teenagers...sexual orientation can be confusing, but then it should get more clear. I personally had homosexual feelings for one year when i was like 15, and I personally got closer to faith. To me it was hard because I've always dreamed of a family, I started to pray and now I can still dream of the family and a woman to love. I came out of it, also because I wasn'y that happy with those homosexual feelings, they didn't fulfill me. This is MY experience.
Many other people had different experiences, of course....

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italianboy84
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When mature adults "come out" well I think our society is still a bit predjudist about gays. Instead of helping and coming together, we're separating ourselves more and more. We've to be close to each other, each person, we're all people!
According to my religious beliefs beliefs people with homosexual feelings are called to abstinence BUT they have to be at the same level in society and not to be discrimanated against. THEY'RE ALL PEOPLE!
And discrimination is also against my religious beliefs and my peronsla values, so...

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I love God, I believe that my virginity is a gift to be given to the woman of my life, at marriage, with God's blessing. I love and respect life.


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