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Well im a girl and i am bi
but i really want a girlfriend cause i've already had a boyfriend
and im finding it hard to get with girls since most that i meant are straight.

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You're right, it can be tricky to meet girls who aren't straight, and there's less of us! Do you go to school or university? Often it can be quite good to get involved in a local GLBT group because many people there will be queer. And when you make some queer friends, they can introduce you to others and you can go along to various events. (Do you come from from Melb, Aus? I think there's quite a few groups in that region).

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My school does not approve on anyone else than striaght im lucky no one has found out .


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Are you in Melbourne, Liana? If so, we can help connect you with some LGBT youth groups in your area.

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this is a wonderful question! I have the exact same problem, i am a bi girl, n i really want a gf, but my community is very christian and i dont think my school would support LGBT. how do i find someone to go out with?
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Welcome to the boards, kiss-a-chip! This topic has been quiet for a while - it's often better to start a new topic when that happens, just FYI. [Smile]

There are plenty of ways to meet other LGBT people - where in the U.S. are you, are you in or near a city?

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