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Okay so the other day my best friend who I'll call John and I hung out at my house with my other friend who i'll call Jill. John sat down next to me and put his arm around me, but I mean he's a jock type football player and he's always been like that, but his hand was right on my nipple and he was very carefully caressing it while Jill was on the other couch. Then jill went to the restroom, and when she left John decides to show me his "hard one" through his shorts, saying that JIll had given it to him. Then while we were in my kitchen he asked me how big i was hard. John is a virgin and I know his hormones are very crazy but IDK what to think! He ended up making out with jill the same day but I still have that gut feeling, I really dont know how to tell if what he wants is something more than a pat on the butt! How do i know!?
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Ultimately, you ask.

If you don't feel able to be totally honest and forthright, even a "Hey, what was with that the other day?" is a way to get more information from your friend about what he wants and how he was feeling.

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While Heather's advice is excellent, I understand (out of pure experience) that asking is really scary.

I remember a lot of guys who were interested in "experimenting" or who just were gay, would make these passing comments or moves when I was hanging out with them. My best advice is to be blunt with them over a text-based internet application (facebook, instant messenger, etc), especially if you are afraid to do this face-to-face. If you are gay, or are interested in this guy, this is the best way to not get your feelings hurt, because I have been in enough awkward situations to go around for the both of us [Smile] . Good luck and be safe.

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