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Nicky NK
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so, last week after gym class, in the locker rooms at school, I was watching my friends undress. No big deal, right? when, suddenly, the inside of my vagina starts to feel really wet, as it does when i masturbate. i realized i was feeling turned on by looking at my friends! i excused myself to go use the restroom, but could find no relief until later that day when i got home and masturbated. this has never happened before; i have a healthy sexual relationship with my boyfriend; and here i was, gettin' horny lookin' at other girls! what is going on? am i bisexual, or what? was it a random occurance? i need help!

Nicky NK


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Heather
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Pretty much EVERYONE will, at some time, have at least SOME degree of same-sex attraction, just like pretty much everyone will, at some time, have some degree f opposite-sex attraction. That's normal: very, very, very few people in the world are 100% heterosexual or homosexual. It's also normal during the teen years to find one is turned on very easily, often by things or situations which may not be sexually interesting/appealing later in life. Not a big.

Whether or not you're bisexual per your identity has less to do with that than it does to whether or not you, at any time, find yourself wanting to pursue romantic and/or sexual relationships with other women.

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wooooh!!!
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This doesnt mean that you're bisexual. Its possible you got turned on because seeing naked girls could have made you think of sex. Lots of people get crushes on people who are the same sex as them and usually they fade away after time - its a normal part of growing up and figuring out your sexuality. This definitely doesnt mean you're bisexual but even if you are thats nothing to be embarrassed about :-)
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