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I am bi and so is my g/f. (which our relationship has been going pretty well since my last post). But n-e way, what do I now cuz my g/f is starting to get picked on. I mean this has never happend b4 becuase everyone else was cool with it. But now there are these 3 girls who are always picking on her about being bi and always saying,"You fag! Where the hell is your girlfriend at!Maybe she can help you.!". She told me about it and just started bawling her eyes out. I know there will always be those few people who will always have to pick on someone. So how can I make her feel better or what can I do about her being bullied at skool?But the thing is I wonder why they haven't started picking on any advice would be great thanx

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I think that you should go to the school authorities immediately and let them know that your girlfriend is being harassed. They are sexually harassing her- and in every school that is against the rules. They are exhibiting prejudice and their abuse is affecting her very much. If they don't believe you- try your hardest to get your girlfriend to tell them too, as well as some of your friends who may have witnessed this. The school is obligated to help you and punish those involved.

Hope you get help, Cait

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Hey , wow that is crazy. Yea there is always going to be those few people who need that one person to pick on. Maybe they just have a certain grudge agaisnt you and not her for some unknown reason. Maybe you should go and talk to these people and find out what the hell there problem is.SORRY for my language , but this really makes me mad.But , my advice is to go and talk to these certain people and if this doesnt stop them , alert a school administrator or a parent. Hope I helped.

~*ive said what i needed to say , ive done what ive needed to do , now i guess whateva happends to us , i guess ill leave it up to u*~

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Moving to GLBT Relationships.
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