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im a lesbian and ive had a girlfriend for a year in a half and still have not been able to give her an orgasm...shes the only girl i have this problem with.nobody else ever has either,weve tried everything. does anyone have any advice?please help us
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Per the user guidelines, we cannot give technique advice.

Which is no loss, because technique advice coming from someone who isn't your girlfriend, or hasn't been her partner, would be of no use anyhow.

The question is this: can she reach orgasm on her own? If not, she needs to find out how to do that FIRST. You may also want to bear in mindn that if she's got the feeling you're going nuts trying to bring her to orgasm, that's the biggest thing that is, in fact, going to be standing in the way of her reaching one.

So, in a nutshell: for now, just do what feels good for both of you. And ask her what feels good to her. if she doesn't know yet, it's time she finds out herself.

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