My girlfriend is a virgin. We have been physical for a few months now, and we'll basically do everything but sex. We typically do a lot of dry sex with her wearing only shorts and me being naked. I never ever ejaculate while we do that, so I really feel like we are being extremely careful.
Today she told me that she noticed a small amount of blood, which has never happened. Her period had ended last Friday and the following day (last Saturday) we fooled around.
Is this any reason to be concerned? I feel like we've been more than careful. I know, that night, I did finger her, and I suppose there is a chance that I had some pre-cum on my fingers. I never go deep at all, because she is a virgin, and I'm fairly confident that there is no way a girl can get pregnant from pre-cum, unless I had ejaculate recently and had not urinated since then (which was not the case last time).
I've always felt like we have been way more than safe, she's just never experienced spotting before, and the timing concerns me a bit.
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