Unless your boyfriend is just plain daft OR fully prepared to be a father, you'd think he'd be scared enough already.
You have BOTH been foolish (if, that is, you ARE unprepared to parent and unwanting of pregnancy), not just one of you. So, you carrying the worry of this all by yourself isn't fair to you at all.
If your most recent risk was less than ten days ago, it's too early for a doctor's test as well.
Might you be pregnant? Maybe. Might you also instead just be stressing out like crazy and getting physical symptoms because it's struck you that you two have been really irresponsible? Yep. Either way, you'll have to wait it out for the test.
In the meantime, I STRONGLY suggest two things:
1. Stop making bad choices for yourself. Step up, stand up and act in your own health and best interest. If you aren't ready for responsible sex, with consequences you and your partner can live with, BOTH of you should wait for sex until you both are.
2. Tell your boyfriend you ARE doing so and demand the same of him. Like, yesterday. You live with the guy, for crying out loud: making this simple of a responsible choice shouldn't be that tricky for either of you. And by all means, neither one of you shouldn't have been scared all along.
[This message has been edited by Miz Scarlet (edited 10-07-2005).]