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CrazyHaLo
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umm..how can I say this..
well last week, I had sex with my boyfriend and stupid I know, we didnt have protected sex (i dont know what got into me..but it was probably like 10 seconds or something) i know there is a high risk of me getting pregnant, but i dont even know if his penis penetrated. He said that he didnt feel ANYTHING AT ALL coz it was his first time and didnt know what to do (note that he said he didnt feel like he came out, even if its that pre-ejaculated thing) I didnt feel anything either..didnt hurt or anything..i just felt him trying to put it in but nothing else whatsoever.

like i said it's been a week and now im feeling cramps...im suppose to have my period next week and i have no idea if its because of my period or something else. Im still having vaginal discharge (white and thing), but I dont know if that can be a significant factor..sorry you guys, im totally clueless on this

Im just so confused so can someone like help me out please? this is actually my first time and like i dont know what to do...the guilt and anxiety is just overwhelming. I would appreciate anyone's help..just reply..someone

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Heather
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Since it's too late for EC, the best you can do right now is wait a few more days, then when it has been at least ten days since the incident, take a pregnancy test.

Really, we can't ruminate if you are or you aren't. Clearly you did have unprotected genital contact, so you do have a risk.

You and your partner will also want to schedule yourselves to start your annual STD and STI screens about a month from now as well.

I'd also suggest both picking up a box of condoms and a bottle of lubricant and having a talk with your partner about having sex responsibly if you're going to continue to be sexually active.

I'm afraid that's the best we can do.


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CrazyHaLo
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thank you much...im going to take a pregnancy test this coming friday. But out of curiosity, is it common to get symptoms the first week? does this involve some type of cramping or a change on vaginal discharge? and one of my friends told me I couldn't be because it didnt hurt at all anyway (she said it always hurts first time)..is that true in all circumstances? sorry so many questions, but thank you in advance; i really appreciate it.

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logic_grrl
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No - in fact a pregnancy generally won't show any symptoms at all this early on.

And your friend is wrong: first-time intercourse isn't always painful. Some women may experience some pain, others don't.


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CrazyHaLo
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ohh thanks thanks ..coz i just took the test and its a negative. I guess my cramps are due to my upcoming period, due this coming feb. ((hopefully)) It's weird though that my cramps make my abdomen growl...thats what basically got me worried coz I never had those before. Anyway, ill take another test if i dont get my period...thank you for all the help, you girLs are the best *hug*
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