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blackcat13
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We are both really young, thirteen and we have both done sexual things before. I AM NOT HAVING SEX, just putting that out there so no need for the 'wait until marriage' speech. I am very mature sexually and very open about my sexuality, he is too. We both want to fool around basically, we have before mildly and it was great and I had no regrets whatsoever, nor did he.

My mom knows, she has no problem as long as we're safe and we both really like each other and we're both open with each other too. Like I said, no sex. And I was re thinking it and I don't plan on having sex for a while, I like this idea, he does too, we've tried it out with each other and we're comfortable with each other too. So I say this is a good idea. Is there anything I should know about getting really sexual for the first time? And please don't give me the "You're too young" speech. I've heard it...

basically, how do I make sure both of our needs are met? What should I expect?

[ 10-28-2011, 10:39 PM: Message edited by: blackcat13 ]

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No one here is going to tell you that you are too young, let alone that you should wait for marriage. That's just not something you're going to hear from us, promise.


This article is a good place for you to start:
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist
Why don't you read it together with your partner, and you can both figure out together what you are and aren't ready for.

And then you'll also want to take a look at this:
Safe, Sound & Sexy: A Safer Sex How-To

And if you have any further questions, you can come on back and ask. [Smile]

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