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concerned 15
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hello, im 15 years old and just recently got a girlfriend, ive had about 6 girfriends now but none of them really got to second base with me, so i was wondering if having pubic hair ( trimmed and taken care of ) and also having a my right testicle being half the size as my left, is unattractive to the majority of women? i dont think that my testicle is that noticable unless i say something. My girlfreind and likes me a lot and im in love with her, im not sure if she loves me. So is it really gross or not a big deal with a girlfriend?
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orca
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Hey concerned. I'm sorry you're worried about this! To be honest, most people just don't notice those things that we notice about ourselves. We can be our harshest critiques and notice those little things that no one else would see or care about.

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ok thanks
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Lilerse
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And some women, including me, actually prefer pubic hair. Everyone has their own tastes - some like it, some don't like it, some (as orca mentioned) just don't notice or care. So there's no way to please everyone - just do what pleases YOU.

As for testicle sizes, that's also not something that bothers me. And especially if I "like someone a lot" like your girlfriend likes you, I wouldn't let hair (or lack thereof) or testicle size bother me or gross me out at all. [Smile]

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Devanie
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Another thing, considering your age. Perhaps the girls you were dating beforehand didn't feel ready for any sort of sex.

I know for a fact that I was deathly afraid of sex until... well, actually I was deathly afraid of it until I found Scarleteen!

So, likely, your testicle and pubic hair are not the issue at all! And if someone makes a huuuuuuuuuge deal about it... Well, maybe they're just not ready to be mature about how some people's bodies are.

All in all, don't worry about it! Your pubic area is only a piece of all of you.

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