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allaric131
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i'm a fifteen y.o ghurL....i never had tried havin' any relationships before...i have suitors...but it's kinda weird coz i don't really like the thing with having commitment or something...am just a troubled yet am happy with my friends,i think i don't need anyone with me now..here's the thing...guyS think am really weird ?am i?and there was an incident when one of my suitor whom i turned down told my friends that i was a Les.
which is noT!?how can i prove am just normalL.?or do i really have a prOblem?

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wobblyheadedjane
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to date right away, and just enjoying time for yourself. In fact, that sounds pretty healthy to me! As for people spreading rumours about you, the best thing to do to make rumours go away is ignore them. Generally, rumors are attempts to get a rise out of you, so reacting to them makes the cycle worse.

My best friend has a Dr. Seuss quote she pulls out at times like these, which is "Be who you are, because those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter." Good luck!

Edited to add: just a heads up that generally, 'lesbian' is the best term to use; abbreviating the word can be insulting.

[This message has been edited by wobblyheadedjane (edited 01-08-2006).]


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allaric131
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thanks! for the adviCe!!
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