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holyrockhardnipplesbatman
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do all guys think that giveing a bjob is grose or repolsive? and do all girls think that eting a girl out is grose or repolsive? i think that giveing a bjob would be grose but on other hande i think that eating a girl out would be perfectly fine and not grose at all. is that strang to thik that way? thx for any answers you give


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Heather
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For starters, all men and women are not heterosexual. Meaning, some of us do or have given oral sex to members of the same sex routinely and may enjoy it quite a bit, let alone finding it replusive.

To boot, not all people who ARE heterosexual find the thought of sex acts with those of the same sex repulsive. In fact, it' s much more common to simply find such disinteresting.

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im not gay, i dont like the same sex i was just wundering because i think that giveing head would be grose i have never done it and never will. and i no girls that think eating someone out would be grose and never have, and never have been eatin out. but thx for ur reaply
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I think that whatever you think is sexy (as long as it's SAFE!!! and legal) is ok.
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I personally don't think it's gross. I've never given head but I don't say it's "nasty" or whatever because I know that one day that could all change. What I do think is gross is doing to anyone and everyone just to pleasure them. Oral sex is normal it's not gross if it safe and careful.
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Some things are illegal that people do anyway. Although there's a lot of laws I don't agree with, the one that comes to mind first are age of sexual consent laws.
Although I see what you mean.

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Try to remember also that it's different strokes from different folks. While you may think that giving oral to a guy is 'grose' some people, myself included, have no problem with it and quite enjoy it. I really like to pleasure my boyfriend. And vice versa goes for oral sex on a girl; some people may really enjoy it.

It's fine for you to have your opinion, but I agree with Olive in the fact that one day it may all change for you. You may find the idea or giving oral to a guy repulsive now but someday you may meet someone special and all of a sudden it may not seem like such a bad idea at all.

I like to remain open minded about everything. Things change.

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Things got kinda screwed up here, what he was really trying to ask is if heterosexual girls think that going down on another girl would be gross or nasty. The reason he asks is because I don't want him to do that to me because i think it would be gross since I wouldnt personally do it. He wanted to know if other girls were like me too.
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The reason he asks is because I don't want him to do that to me because i think it would be gross since I wouldnt personally do it.

Well, if you're a heterosexual girl, then it's not really that surprising that you're turned off by the thought of giving oral sex to another girl - that's just not the way you're oriented.

But it's not logical to say that therefore it's "gross" in some objective way or that it's unfair to ask your partner to do it (if it's what you both want).

I imagine that (as a heterosexual girl) you're probably not very turned on by the idea of kissing another girl either.

So would that make it logical for you to say "I personally would never kiss a girl, so kissing girls is gross, so I won't let my boyfriend kiss me"? I think not .


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Very good point
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