Bleeding during sex

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Bleeding during sex

Unread postby Eve J. » Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:32 pm

Okay so my boyfriend and i had sex today and out of no where i started bleeding. It was alot of blood, my whole pillow was covered. But something gooey also came out. It was shaped like a little bean. I also bleed everytime we have sex but its never alot of blood. Can it be a blood clot or a miscarriage ( even though i dont think i was pregnant). Please help

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Re: Bleeding during sex

Unread postby Heather » Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:37 pm

If you have been bleeding every time you have been having sex, it's been past time to see a sexual healthcare provider. That is a common sign of something being up, whether that something is a sexually transmitted infection or something like cervical or uterine polyps.

Since this has been happening for a while, it seems unlikely to be something new like a miscarriage. But given the heaviness of the bleeding, I'd strongly suggest that you get yourself to healthcare TODAY, now. I would go to either the emergency room or to an urgent care. Can you get yourself to one of those places?
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Re: Bleeding during sex

Unread postby Eve J. » Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:41 pm

@Heather no i cant. I have no one to take me. Im 18 and have no car.

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Re: Bleeding during sex

Unread postby Heather » Fri Jul 13, 2018 2:56 pm

Okay, then what you will need to do is call an ambulance. You will call 911, tell them it is a medical emergency, and then answer their questions from there.

Soaking a pillow with unexplained bleeding of any kind is a medical emergency. I know it can be daunting if you haven't done it before, but something like this is potentially very serious and requires care.
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Re: Bleeding during sex

Unread postby Heather » Sun Jul 15, 2018 1:45 pm

Eve: I'm just checking in on you. Your posts concerned me, and I wanted to be sure you were able to get some care and are okay.
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