Did he say it

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Did he say it

Unread postby Spiderman23 » Mon May 14, 2018 2:45 pm

So I went away with my boyfriend the other weekend for the night and I did drink a lot and got pretty drunk. Safe to say the night ended with me being sick... anyway that’s not really what I’m on here to talk about. I remember quite a bit of the night but one thing is bugging me a lot. I don’t know if I remember my boyfriend saying ‘i think falling in love with you’. I’m just freaking out because I don’t know if I said it back but if I confront him about it and he didn’t say it I will be so embarrassed and if he did say it, he might not remember saying it so I’m in a bit of a pickle

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Re: Did he say it

Unread postby Mo » Mon May 14, 2018 3:32 pm

As you say, it's possible that he may not remember what he said that night, but the only way to know is to talk with him about it. If asking "hey, did you say you were falling in love with me last week?" feels too intimidating or potentially embarrassing, maybe having a general conversation about your relationship and how you're both feeling about it and about each other might be helpful.

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