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bi, straight orcurious

Posted: Sun May 21, 2017 9:56 pm
by jurassicwars
i find myself watching some shemale porn lately and it turns me on and i identify as straight does watching it make me bi or just curious

Re: bi, straight orcurious

Posted: Mon May 22, 2017 5:19 am
by Sam W
Hi Jurassicwars,

I assume you mean porn featuring trans women (the term "shemale" is considered offensive)? If so, trans women are women so being attracted to them means you're still attracted primarily to women. Are there other instances that are making you wonder about your orientation?

Re: bi, straight orcurious

Posted: Mon May 22, 2017 9:08 pm
by jurassicwars
sometimes i watch emo guy porn

Re: bi, straight orcurious

Posted: Tue May 23, 2017 4:42 am
by Iwanthelp
Some folk have different body type/aesthetic preferences for different genders. Can be valid as bisexual even if you only like feminine dudes as well as girls.

Re: bi, straight orcurious

Posted: Tue May 23, 2017 5:22 am
by Sam W
Iwanthelp is right: you can be bisexual and different preferences depending on the gender of the person involved. Ultimately, it's up to you to label your sexual orientation as you see fit. This article is a great place to start with that: The Rainbow Connection: Orientation for Everyone

Re: bi, straight orcurious

Posted: Tue May 23, 2017 6:16 pm
by jurassicwars
i do get turned on by woman who have hair like guys and by emo guys that turns me on

Re: bi, straight orcurious

Posted: Wed May 24, 2017 5:31 am
by Sam W
Then it certainly sounds like you're experiencing attraction to multiple genders, which meets most people's definition of bisexuality or pansexuality. But, as I said above, it's ultimately up to you to decide what term you feel most comfortable using to refer to yourself.