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Having sex as a trans guy?

Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2023 9:45 pm
by Dyingdreams
Hi, so I am a trans masculine guy, and I was wondering how exactly I can be more comfortable with having sex with my girlfriend? I know I can’t wear a binder during it, but it really bugs me having my breast out sometimes. I was wondering what other alternatives there are it that would be safe for it, as I am struggling with coming up with some and the internet isn’t helping. Thank you!

Re: Having sex as a trans guy?

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2023 2:07 am
by Latha
Hi Dyingdreams- welcome to the boards!

How would you feel about wearing a sports bra to minimize the appearence of your chest, and perhaps wearing a shirt on top?

Re: Having sex as a trans guy?

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2023 7:51 am
by Dyingdreams
Hm I have tried that by myself when masturbating and my issue is that my tank top is fairly long, and it covers up my private parts, including my bottom, which is fairly uncomfortable for me. My binder is a half length one, so it only goes to my waist. I could try just the sports bra, but I am afraid that might not be enough.

Re: Having sex as a trans guy?

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2023 12:03 pm
by Amanda B
Hey Dyingdreams,

Do you have any shirts you'd be comfortable cropping? It doesn't even need to be a full crop, just enough so the parts you want uncovered can be uncovered. I've done a quick DIY at home with just an old t-shirt and some scissors.