Sexually Frustrated
Posted: Fri May 05, 2023 9:11 am
I had an arranged marriage and due to cultural reason I wasn’t allowed to have sex before marriage. We are both in our late 30s. I have been married for two years and I haven’t had sex with my husband. When we get intimate, which is always initiated by me ends in a make out. I have asked him several times in these past years and months if he is attracted to me or has any issues. He has always denied it and said it will happen. Despite of telling him that I am sexually frustrated and unsatisfied, I am still not heard. We fight and argue and have different opinions on things, which he blames for not bringing him in the mood.
With no other way, I had to drag my in-laws into the picture. Then he acknowledges the gravity of the situation admitting that he has low sex drives and will see a doctor.
He saw a urologist and his blood work with testosterone level and sex hormone level came normal. The Dr suggested he said take viagra.
I know he has never had sex and I feel he is asexual. He is in denial and doesn’t admit that.
I have decided to file a divorce because I don’t think viagra will fix his low sex drive. I want a healthy normal sex life and I feel viagra make its meditative and more like a forced sex. Am I wrong to think this way? Should I give him a chance with the pill?
-Sexually Frustrated Girl
With no other way, I had to drag my in-laws into the picture. Then he acknowledges the gravity of the situation admitting that he has low sex drives and will see a doctor.
He saw a urologist and his blood work with testosterone level and sex hormone level came normal. The Dr suggested he said take viagra.
I know he has never had sex and I feel he is asexual. He is in denial and doesn’t admit that.
I have decided to file a divorce because I don’t think viagra will fix his low sex drive. I want a healthy normal sex life and I feel viagra make its meditative and more like a forced sex. Am I wrong to think this way? Should I give him a chance with the pill?
-Sexually Frustrated Girl