I'm a 21 yr old I think of myself as a straight man but enjoy anal masturbation.
I enjoy to ride a dildo and use anal toys but don't know how to bring that into my sex life with my girlfriend or future women
Ideally, you'd bring this topic up as part of a larger conversation with a partner about what you each enjoy in terms of sex ( we have two great tools to help you with that conversation: Be a Blabbermouth! The Whats, Whys and Hows of Talking About Sex With a Partner , Yes, No, Maybe So: A Sexual Inventory Stocklist ). That gives you a chance to tell your partner that you enjoy anal stimulation, and gives the two of you a chance to talk about whether that's something you're both comfortable including in your sex life. Does that make sense?