So, this is something where we can't give a definite answer because we're not able to see your body, and we're not healthcare providers who could look for other signs that might indicate you're intersex. I will say that if the only thing that's making you think this is the shape of your clitoris, it may be more that what you're experiencing is just genital variation. You're right that all clits are different, and there's actually more variety out there than a lot of people realize, especially if the only point of comparison is porn or other media.
But, I don't want to just dismiss the possibility that you're intersex if you're thinking you might be. Can you give me a sense of how much reading or other information you've gotten about intersexuality? Are there other elements of those experiences that resonate with you and make you think that's something you might be?
When you say you're worried about this affecting future relationships, are you referring specifically to the shape of your genitals, or to the possibility that you may be intersex?