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Babe101
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Help!!!!!

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Hello everybody, I am a 14 year old girl. However, I really want a sexual relationship.
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Re: Help!!!!!

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Hi Babe101,

From your previous posts it looks like you do have a sexual relationship with your boyfriend, as the two of you are engaging in some sexual behavior. A you referring to a specific kind of sex?
Babe101
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Re: Help!!!!!

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No, plus I broke up with previous boyfriend because I found out he was a paedo
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Re: Help!!!!!

Unread post by Sam W »

That sounds like a difficult thing to discover. How are you doing?

As to your original question, what kind of help are you looking for from us?
Babe101
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Re: Help!!!!!

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Well I would love to be In a sexual relationship is there and wonder how?
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Re: Help!!!!!

Unread post by Heather »

A relationship -- of any kind -- is with a person, someone we know. It's not abstract, it's specific. And you probably don't want to be in this kind of relationship with just anyone.

So, the best place to start is usually with who, specifically, you have these kinds of feelings for and would want to pursue this kind of relationship with. Is there someone you have in mind?
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead
Babe101
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Re: Help!!!!!

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no could you help?
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Re: Help!!!!!

Unread post by Sam W »

We can't really pick a person for you to decide you want to pursue a relationship with. That sort of feeling arises organically from getting to know other people. Something we can help with is brainstorming ways for you to meet new people (since it doesn't sound like there's anyone you're interested in right now) who could be potential partners. Does that sound helpful?
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