So this is my first time posting on the message boards so I’m somewhat nervous/embarrassed; I have been on this absolutely amazing website before however.
Basically my question is, are my masturbations ending in orgasms?
So I’m sixteen years old and have been pleasuring myself, knowingly I’d say for a year and a half or so. I’ve looked up ways how and my consistent method is while lying down, (Apologies if this is rather graphic?) stroking the general area with two fingers through my underwear. I’ve read about stimulating the clitoris especially or penetrating with your fingers and I’ve experimented a little I suppose, but it just feels weird.
Essentially, I do a constant motion and it’s like a building up sensation until it reaches its height hence the part that I’m confused about. I’ve been told an orgasm is like mind blowing pleasure, and what I feel certainly doesn’t live up to that? Like, it’s nice, it feels good but not insanely good, I suppose.
Once I finish, it’s usually more sensitive so most of the times I don’t continue. I’m usually wet by then so I don’t know if that would be classified as coming, or an orgasm or what. Overall, I’m pretty clueless about it all, but haven’t been able to find out what I need.