bleeding
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bleeding
i was trying to masturbate but i started bleeding.. i also bled two days ago when my boyfriend fingered me quite harder than before.. my period isnt til the 28th so im sure it isnt my period. is this something to worry about?
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Re: bleeding
hi kiiiimbela,
It sounds like you might have some microabrasions from the manual sex you had with your boyfriend - tiny scrapes or tears that can bleed a surprising amount. This can happen if the sex is rough or rushed. If it starts happening every time, it's time to see a healthcare provider to make sure there isn't a medical issue. In the meantime, I'd suggest slowing down, using lube, making sure you have both trimmed your fingernails and maybe being a bit gentler. Do those seem like things you can ask your boyfriend for? Did you speak about the bleeding last time?
It sounds like you might have some microabrasions from the manual sex you had with your boyfriend - tiny scrapes or tears that can bleed a surprising amount. This can happen if the sex is rough or rushed. If it starts happening every time, it's time to see a healthcare provider to make sure there isn't a medical issue. In the meantime, I'd suggest slowing down, using lube, making sure you have both trimmed your fingernails and maybe being a bit gentler. Do those seem like things you can ask your boyfriend for? Did you speak about the bleeding last time?
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