Scared even though I didn't get her pregnant

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Scared even though I didn't get her pregnant

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So me and my best friend have feelings for each other. 5 days ago we had a bit of fun. She gave me a blowjob then I came on her chest. I didn't wipe it off, so I didn't touch it I think. Then her sister asked for help so I had to leave. I came into contact with devices and the couch, so any hypothetical semen on my hand would have left. Then I fingered her until she came. Now yesterday she told me her period was late. And now I'm scared that she might be pregnant. But I don't want to suggest a pregnancy test since what if it says she is. But I've done research and most of my research shows that its unlikely she is pregnant. As for the late period, the past 2 weeks she said she hasn't been eating that much. And that she was used to late periods due to playing lots of sports a couple of months ago. So I'm now confused what to do, cuz I'm scared to lose her.
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Re: Scared even though I didn't get her pregnant

Unread post by al »

Hi there Epitaph,

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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