Please help me clear up my mind and help me get my facts straight. Because right now, I have been stressed out for the past 3days, not sleeping or eating.
As far as I know, I've only been sexually active recently. I can re call all of my experiences and for some reason my illogical side just seems to take over me.
Me and my boyfriend of two months now decided to get STI testing on August 10,2018.
We have engaged in unprotected sex multiple times. He got tested a month before we met and he told me he got tested 2 weeks after having protected sex with 4 different people. He told me his results came to be negative. I was confident at the moment and we had unprotected sex.but recently I started having vaginal discomfort. That's when I convinced him to get tested with me. Right now were just waiting for the results and I cant stop freaking out. That he might have given me something or I might have given him something.
This was my first time getting tested because this is the second time I've had sexual intercourse unprotected with someone.
I have a few questions about different scenarios.
1. What is the likelyhood of me having an STI if me and a partner has never been with any other people and never had any sexual contact with anyone? My very first boyfriend was a long term relationship of 6 years (15-21yrs old) we never had any vaginal or any intercourse, but we did a lot of foreplay. We've never been with anyone but each other. What is the likelyhood of any of us having an STI?
2. My second encounter was with a friend. He guaranteed me hes regularly tested and the only thing I did with him was oral sex and kissing. What is the likelihood of me catching and STI and the possibility of HIV through oral?
3. My third encounter was with another person. This time it was different because I was put into a situation where I was too late to realize and stop it. I had unprotected sex with this person. And it was my first time. He assured me he was wearing a condom. But it was too late for me because I did not know the difference. He assured me that he is clean because the last time he got tested was when he was with his ex of two years and since then the only person he had unprotected sex with is me. What is the likelihood of me catching an STI or HIV from this?
Please help me ease my mind.