Her Doubtful Pregnancy And My OCD

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Her Doubtful Pregnancy And My OCD

Unread postby OCDVictim » Fri Jun 15, 2018 6:33 pm

Last month, my girlfriend and I were making out at my place. At the end, I placed my penis inside her panties (Not near to her vulva.) I was inside her panties but above her vulva. Before entering, there was precum on my penis so I wiped it off. Now, it's in my head that when it was inside a drop of precum might have fallen on her vulva. So, it was not a direct genital-genital contact or a sexual intercourse and also I didn't ejaculate like the scanerio you've mentioned in your articles. A week after this incident she had her periods or it was Decidual Bleeding (I read it in your article.) Now, the thing about her period is that they are irregular. From past 2-3 months the cycle was of 34-35 days. This time it happened after 31 days. Also, after joining the college her periods have changed significantly because of the type of food served here. Now, from some time her period pattern was normal flow on day 1, decreasing on day 2 and then a bit increasing on day 3 and then ending on start of day 4. But last month (after the incident) day 1 was really light but red in color. Day 2 was heavy, day 3 was a bit normal, and day 4 flow increased a bit and then stopped at the end of day 4.The reason for this change may be because of the vitamin/mineral pills she was on from a month. But I don't know. During her periods, she had normal period symptoms like craving for chocolate, cramps. There are no pregnancy symptoms like nausea or darkening of areolas. This month, last week her PMS came, like pimples breakout, food craving, fatigue, and mood swings. She's expecting her second period (after that incident) in a few days.
I know what I am fearing, the possibility of that happening is really rare. Getting pregnant from a drop of precum without actual contact and then having Decidual Bleeding a week after it.
But this is all the case. I am diagnosed from OCD and I know you don't reply to questions having pregnancy fears but a little help would be really appreciated.
Could it be Decidual Bleeding? How do you spot the difference between Decidual bleeding and periods? Can you get pregnant from what I have mentioned above?
Thank you.

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Re: Her Doubtful Pregnancy And My OCD

Unread postby Siân » Sat Jun 16, 2018 5:03 am

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
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For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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