Scared!

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Amb11763
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Scared!

Unread post by Amb11763 »

So my boyfriend and I had sex last night and it was the first time that we did where it wasn't super painful. We used a condom for some of but it was burning. So we did the rest of it without a condom. I'm not on birth control and my period won't come for another 10 days? Is there any chance I'll get pregnant and should I get the day after pill to be in the safe side.

Thanks for the help!
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Re: Scared!

Unread post by Bessie F. »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk,
discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For more help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodie ... _companion
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