Pregnancy Scare

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Pregnancy Scare

Unread post by BD72 »

Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and obviously the last thing I would want is to be pregnant.

However, three days prior to ovulation by boyfriend and I were making out and things got a little heated, which is normal. We both agreed that if I'm ovulating we wouldn't ever risk penetration or dry humping without clothes. We also agreed at least one of us would keep clothes on at all times We did dry humping with clothes on and he came, inside his clothing. Later, he fingered me. I'm pretty sure he didn't have semen on his fingers but I'm not sure. My period is 1 day late and my cervix is at medium height with no discharge. I have sore breasts and slight nausea. Is there any way I could be pregnant?
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Re: Pregnancy Scare

Unread post by Heather »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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