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In the beginning of December I had sex, but the condom broke. I am currently on birth control but i was extremely freaked out so I took a plan B pill. I also got my period at my schedule time 2 weeks later but it was a few days late. Now over a month later I am convinced I’m pregnant even though I have taken 2 pregnancy test that were negative. I have been having abdominal cramping, back pain, headaches, and loss of appetite. All of these symptoms are also related to severe stress which is what i have. I keep thinking about this from right when I wake up to when I go to sleep. I think I am worrying myself sick and I have no one to talk to. I keep reading online about girls who get false negatives. Do you think I am okay?

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I’m sorry. I just feel extremely lost and I am looking for some kind of comfort or support i guess.

Hi bluelagoon,

If you find anxiety is something you often deal with, you are more than welcome to start another thread where we can talk about strategies for dealing with that and offer you support in finding a counselor. We just won't talk about your pregnancy scare with you. If you want more info about why that it is, you can read our explanation of our policy here:
http://www.scarleteen.com/pregnancy_fea ... ety_policy.