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This is my first time writing on any kind of message board. I've already read that pregnancy scare questions won't be answered but I'm writing anyways. I'm 20 and I'm a virgin, but the past week's been a hell for me. My period isn't very regular to begin with and it's been missing for a week now but I've never done anything risky, yet I'm convinced I'm pregnant. I even started noticing the symptoms and I'm absolutely mortified. I can't seem to shake it off, it's making my daily life unbearable. Took a pregnancy test and it came negative, but it didn't calm me down. I'm scared of going to the gynecologist in case he/she tells me I'm pregnant, and I keep thinking what will I do when I find out. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this...

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