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Allybannsiders
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Direct contact

Unread post by Allybannsiders »

Does direct contact classify if there was sperm on toilet paper and you used it to dry yourself off after urination?
Sam W
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Re: Direct contact

Unread post by Sam W »

Nope, direct contact is:

Direct (with no clothing, at all, covering anyone's genitals) genital-to-genital contact between someone with a penis and someone with a vulva, such as genital intercourse or otherwise rubbing genitals together OR direct contact with ejaculate (semen) and the vulva, vaginal opening or anus.
Allybannsiders
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Re: Direct contact

Unread post by Allybannsiders »

So it has to be he has ejaculted on your vagina/vulva there and then? It can't be he ejaculated on your toilet roll then a half hour later you wiped with it after urination?
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Re: Direct contact

Unread post by Heather »

Just like Sam said, direct means from one person's body to another person's body without anything in between. A toilet roll isn't a body part.
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Allybannsiders
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Re: Direct contact

Unread post by Allybannsiders »

Ok, thanks for clarifying :)
Allybannsiders
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Re: Direct contact

Unread post by Allybannsiders »

Can I just double check, so there is definitely no way a pregnancy could occur from sperm being on toilet paper or the toilet seat?
Sam W
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Re: Direct contact

Unread post by Sam W »

We've already made out answer to that clear, so I am going to go ahead and close this thread.
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