Super-anxious

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Super-anxious

Unread post by tmtv1000 »

So my boyfriend and I had sex just yesterday, we used a condom and the withdrawal method. He had ejaculated on his hands but shortly after he washed his hands, and dried them down with a towel. 20 mins or so later we decided to have sex again (with protection), and he placed the same hand in to finger me, however there was no visual sperm I could see. Could I be pregnant? I am so afraid because this is my first time and I've just read so many articles about accidental pregnancies and It has caused me to become overly stressed and worried. Is it necessary to take Plan B at this stage?
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Re: Super-anxious

Unread post by al »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not otherwise involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual boundaries and boundaries based on your needs and / or presenting them to any partners
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• help locating or using emergency contraception if and When You Have had a pregnancy risk
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• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

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