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Hi I was wondering if I could know if I'm still a virgin if my bf and I were having (wet or dry sex)in the same day I finished my period I was wearing those thin thin shorts and my underwear and he was without his clothes and wen we finish doing that I went to the restroom to take a shower and my underwear had blood i don't know if this is a bad thing or if it means I'm not a virgin anymore either way I need to know am worry

Anomynous1212 wrote:Hi I was wondering if I could know if I'm still a virgin if my bf and I were having (wet or dry sex)in the same day I finished my period I was wearing those thin thin shorts and my underwear and he was without his clothes and wen we finish doing that I went to the restroom to take a shower and my underwear had blood i don't know if this is a bad thing or if it means I'm not a virgin anymore either way I need to know am worry

no, because its still penetration

So can I get pregnant like that?

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Anonymous, whether or not you are still a virgin depends on how you define virginity for yourself. Virginity isn't a physical thing, it's an idea, and people's definitions of it vary. There's more on that here: 20 Questions About Virginity: Scarleteen Interviews Hanne Blank
and here: My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It

Per the risk of pregnancy, this piece goes into detail about what activities pose risks of pregnancy and STIs: Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?