Paranoid about being pregnant

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Mal99mo
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Paranoid about being pregnant

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So here's my story, I found out I was pregnant on November it was Black Friday, and because I'm in a age that I'm not prepared to have a baby, my partner and I decided to have an medical abortion.. it was very hard to deal with. I had the abortion Tuesday of November, everything was fine then I started birth control that coming up Sunday, so when taking the first month i of course was spotting then on the sugar pills I was bleeding heavier like a period so I'm guessing that was my period! Then I started my second month of birth control , I took Sunday and Monday pills then that Tuesday I had sex finally for the first time after the abortion , we used protection for the first rounds then the last one we didn't just a few minutes but my partner never came at all, then I took my pill at the time I always take it. So is there a chance I'm pregnant?
After started this month I been having abdominal pain and rn I been having diarrhea, I don't know if it's the birth control but I haven't had sex ever since because I was paranoid
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Re: Paranoid about being pregnant

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We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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