Sexual Health

[Cheesin]

Ok, so I'm having the worst pregancy scare of my life. About a week ago a guy came on my breasts. I had pants on when he did but I'm not sure if it was possible for his semen to go down into my pants. I don't think it did but could I be pregnant if it actually had gone into my pants? Or would my pants and underwear absorb it. When I got home (Which was around 4 hours later) I hopped in the shower and rinsed off. Could the water have made the semen go to my vagina? Would his semen have even been alive still? My period is due in 4 days but I am spotting a little. I had an almost brownish discharge. But I do have poop issues so maybe it's from laxatives? I have depression so maybe I have this spotting due to stress? I'm not sure. Everyone says it's so unlikely and almost impossible to be pregnant but I can't stop worrying. I also am having light cramping. Could I be pregnant?

[Heather]

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