Not done with anxiety im a failure.

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Lola2018
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Not done with anxiety im a failure.

Unread postby Lola2018 » Thu Jun 28, 2018 1:12 am

Hi...
Im sorry to disappoint everyone. I can’t habdle my stress I thought I could but I can’t. I need a pregnancy t st my abciaty is back and I’m scared. :(
I hate that I can’t habdle it and I hate that I truly believe I might be pregnant. What if this time I am and something did go wrong with the condom. I just don’t get it.
Sorry
I’m super scared :cry:

Lola2018
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Re: Not done with anxiety im a failure.

Unread postby Lola2018 » Thu Jun 28, 2018 1:13 am

I’m scared to let my body friend see this side of anxiety... but I just can’t habdle it. And I’m scared to be right..!b cause now things are going so well in my life new job and I have this huge trip planned in two weeks and being pregnant would just ruin everything. I thought I was doing things right and being extra careful what’s wrong ? 4 days late.

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Re: Not done with anxiety im a failure.

Unread postby Heather » Thu Jun 28, 2018 9:39 am

Lola,

You're not disappointing anyone. Managing anxiety is challenging, especially without some kind of qualified help, even if that help is just a self-help book written by someone who is an expert about anxiety.

As you know, we will NOT engage with pregnancy scares here, though, so I need to be clear and ask you to please stop trying to get us to do that, directly or indirectly.

However, if you would like some resources or direction when it comes to getting help learning to manage your anxiety, we can do that. Additionally, if you want help about how to talk to a partner about something like your anxiety, we can help you out with that as well.
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Lola2018
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Re: Not done with anxiety im a failure.

Unread postby Lola2018 » Fri Jun 29, 2018 6:14 am

Thanks. :)

Lola2018
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Re: Not done with anxiety im a failure.

Unread postby Lola2018 » Sat Jul 07, 2018 5:14 pm

I ended my period three days ago. Just now I saw a small pinkish sticky discharge.. should I worry about something or is it something normal that sometimes that happens? Thanks :)


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